Monday, May 14, 2012

Pull Up Your FUCKING Pants, Bitch!


Ok, so how did THAT become a fashion statement for certain ethnicities that is supposed to mean “badass”? Really?? What the fuck is up with this mentality?

Ok, I will just say it: by “ethnicities”, I mean the black community.

I don’t see many Asians, whites or Hispanics wearing their clothes like this… at least not those that aren’t immersing themselves in the black lifestyle.

Hold your accusations of racism for a mother fucking minute, k? I admit that I judge people on how they look. By saying that, don’t jump up in righteous indignation and wave the Racist Card. I do it equally for all people. How they wear their clothes, style their hair, piercings and all! It gives the first impression.

When I was in high school, I had a Mohawk and would color it damn near weekly. I would wear clothes that were fashionable for the era. I had the leather, belts and buckles, I had it all. And I did all of this with the mindset that I was forcing society to NOT judge a book by its cover. I had intelligence and integrity and was trying to make people take me for who I was after they get to know me.

You know what? That was juvenile and stupid.

People will make a first impression of you LONG before they talk to you and get to know you. But I WAS juvenile and stupid at that time. I was supposed to be. I was a JUVENILE. Then I grew up. I started trying to find work, friends and such. The people I with which wanted to surround myself would not give me a chance. I just couldn’t figure it out. The people that I ended up surrounding myself with were good people, but I had to wade through some really fucked up people to find them.

As I matured, my personal style began to change a bit and the people with whom I wanted to hang out started hanging out with me. Wow. Imagine that!  Now I dress as I want to – but also keep in mind that I have a certain responsibility to how I am perceived by how I dress.

While I hope they will outgrow this fad/phase as they grow up. I applaud the idealism youth demonstrate by doing as I did… but the image projected is that of a thug. Not a cool thug, like a gangster in the 20’s and 30’s, but one that would mug you, steal your car, rape your girlfriend and get a tattoo to commemorate the occasion. Then I learned the MEANING behind the fashion statement – what it meant when it was developed.

I ask you: Are ALL of these juvenile minded adults walking around looking like they feel so tough aware that they are saying to the world, “I’ll be your bitch and take it in the ass!”? I guess I’m getting old. I guess I am getting more conservative as I get older, but I still think that it looks slovenly and makes me think that the wearer has absolutely NO self-respect or pride in their appearance.

I would not trust someone looking like that to pick up my dogshit!

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